I wrote about my great-grandmother Clara Waldeck Mulder in The Lost Bracelet. At the time I posted about her, I didn’t really have a lot of facts about her, other than that I lost her bracelet because the clasp didn’t hold while I was at work. Ironically, I was selling costume jewelry at Jacobson’s, in downtown Kalamazoo.
Since then my mother gave me some notes about her grandma:
- She regularly did heavy farm chores, especially after her children were old enough to stay in the house alone. She was a big strong woman.
- She cooked without recipes, but the food tasted very good.
- In the evening she served us homemade ice cream that she and Grandpa made.
- She cared for the chickens, including slaughtering them to cook and eat.
- Along with family help, she kept a large vegetable garden.
- She let us go wildflower picking in the “woods” across the road from their farmhouse and barn.
- She let us play the player piano as much as we wanted. It used the perforated paper rolls.
- Her family, both sides, seemed to carry a glaucoma gene; many experienced at least some loss of vision.
- Some of her relatives were farmers.
- Her family met for a family reunion with extended family every summer–it went on for many years.
- When she got sick in her sixties and died, I felt a great loss.
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Although I never got to meet my great-grandmother Clara, I did visit her farm and even stayed there for a week once with my great-grandfather and his second wife Margaret. I remember my grandmother, Clara’s daughter, taking me wildflower picking in the woods across the street from the farmhouse.
By this time you might wonder what the clue could be about the Waldecks. Well, the information I had been given was that Clara’s father was Godfrey (probably Gottfried) Waldeck and her mother’s maiden name was Alvena Neffka.
I had met a brick wall trying to trace these people back to Germany. I even talked to a German genealogist who has helped me in the past. He said Neffka couldn’t be a German name. He questioned if that was really the name.
The only clue I’d found was on Alvena’s death certificate which indicated that her father was Louis Koffler and her mother Dora Couch.
So I started picking and probing at the name Neffka (on Ancestry), trying to figure out what else it could be. That’s when names like Gniffke, Koffler, Knoffka started showing up all over the place.
Then suddenly I started getting hits on Noffke right and left, especially in Caledonia, Michigan, where my great-grandmother was from. I changed the name to Noffke on my tree and I was showered with little green leaf hints from Ancestry.
For the first time, I found tons of Noffke relatives right in southwestern Michigan, where they ought to be. I am still going through this treasury of information.
I’m a little closer to breaking through that brick wall.
Also, I had a DNA match at Ancestry with a verifiable relative—we are both 2nd great-granddaughters of Godfrey and Alvena. She and I inexplicably showed up with eastern European DNA. That, and some documents which say “Prussia,” seem to indicate that my grandmother’s Noffke family—and probably the Waldecks as well—are actually from Prussia, not Germany proper.
Onward in my search. Polishing up my Nancy Drew microscope for the Noffke leaves.
Leaving you with a photo of old Caledonia, Michigan:
The Family Kalamazoo 